Monday 18 April 2016

Chastity devices & Me

Ok let's start this with controversy; male chastity devices in terms of enforcement of masturbation prevention and orgasm denial are utterly useless. There is absolutely no way any male could be placed in one of these devices unwillingly and made to endure chastity against his will. There is absolutely no way a suspicious partner could ensure their man wasn't cheating or masturbating by fitting a device on him and there is absolutely no way it would prevent any male from achieving orgasm.

The internet is full of videos of men having an orgasm in their device. I myself can achieve this, much to my delight (and within my chastity rules). Even if you really are physically unable to masturbate in you device then you can still pull out of your device. Everyone can; I  don't care how big you are. You can fill 'the curve' without a millimetre to spare but you can still pull out. Invert your hips, engage your transverse abdominals and the rest is easy. Most of us just have to pull. To be honest I think everyone just needs to pull. The problem is the penis is too pliable and if you don't believe me just watch the stage show 'Puppetry of the Penis'. Well hung guys getting those things it any shape they like.



The problem lays simply in the design of the 'trapped testicle' method of nearly all MCD's (Male Chastity Device) By the time you've taken the fiddly bits out of the equation they all have the same two part format; a base ring that encircles the testicles and penis and then a sheath that encapsulates the penis and locks in place trapping the balls. The problem is the base ring, quite simply if it goes in then it can come out. It doesn't matter how tight it is because originally you got it in there. The penis can always be pulled back through that ring. Only those with a PA piercing can ever be truly 'locked' and even those guys can still experience orgasm in the device.

I'm fully aware of the big expensive belts that go around the waist but they obviously score an absolute zero in long term practicality, but so do many MCD's. The theory of leaving the keys with a Pro-Domme who you only see every few weeks is off the cards for me. You have to be given the key or be unlocked at least twice a day in my opinion for cleanliness. These things stink after a day and are unhygienic. If you shower or bathe in them then you'll end up with water trapped between the plastic and your body. Water at body temperature! Nothing breeds bacteria quicker than that. The metal devices are obviously more hygienic but with the security measures we have in place everywhere I wish you luck in one of those without the key.

So with that scathing attack my device obviously went in the bin didn't it? I mean I wouldn't waste my time in one would I ? Obviously I've discarded it as a concept haven I ?

Have I hell! I absolutely love my chastity device and I'm in it 98% of the time. Eliza doesn't hold my keys. She has one, it hangs teasingly off my collar but I have the other. I take my device off twice a day to wash thoroughly, some days three times. I used to keep a distance between myself and the key but I don't bother now. It's on my key ring. I don't need a distance as I don't want to come out of my device. So why?

Well the first answer is one of practicality. I've just absolutely destroyed the practicalities of MCD's above but there is one thing they do well. Eliza has me on a no touch rule. That's no touching at all bar the obvious when washing. My chastity regime isn't tough compared to a lot of you guys. At the point of writing this I'm allowed to masturbate every sixth day. So it's not at all unreasonable for Mistress to have put that restriction on me. The problem was I was crap at keeping to it. All day I would involuntarily touch and then realise what I'd done. Now all I feel is plastic. It keeps me obedient and when I'm obedient I'm happy and more importantly, Mistress is happy.

That isn't the best bit though. The device reminds me of my commitment, I guess in a lot of ways it's become a comfort blanket. It keeps me feeling connected and it's deeply symbolic. I just love it. The kink angle of it has well past. Most of the time I don't know I'm even wearing it, to the point that I went through a stage of arriving at the gents only to remember as I unzipped that I actually needed a cubicle, but many times a day I do get a little reminder. A nudge, a feeling and it's great. I love my small commitment to chastity and the regime I adhere too, the device really enhances that.



I currently am in 'The Holy Trainer 2' device( mine is the one above). This device is in a different league to the CB6000. It's so comfortable it's unbelievable. It holds you differently too, it tucks you in neatly. I also have to say that whilst it remains true that I can pull out of it I sure as hell can't then get back into it as your testicles invade the area where the penis was prior to extraction. Even erections aren't unpleasant in the Holy Trainer, unlike the CB6000 where they were unbearable. However there is one down side to the Holy Trainer; it comes in pink and Eliza has a sense of humour. Fortunately she is the only person who ever sees it.

In conclusion though chastity  and all its wonders are way deeper than any device, the device is the side show, the gloss, the essence of chastity is held in the commitment and it's beauty is held deep inside yourself.